comfort zone

Comfort zone we all have it it is a place where we feel safe and nothing seems bad to happen and beyond is all the bad things are but are comfort zones really that good in the pic it shows that beyond it is the learning zone this is were life really is according to Wikipedia comfort zones  is a psychological state in which things feel familiar to a person and they are at ease and in control of their environment, experiencing low levels of anxiety and stress. In this zone, a steady level of performance is possible.

Bardwick defines the term as "a behavioral state where a person operates in an anxiety-neutral position. Brown describes it as "Where our uncertainty, scarcity, and vulnerability are minimized where we believe we'll have access to enough love, food, talent, time, admiration. Where we feel we have some control

according to these definitions, there is a low level of risk and everything is in our control I don't know about you but when everything is always going your way it means your life is boring life is about taking the risk as beyond it is more.

As the image suggests growth begins at the end of the comfort zone as good as the comfort zone is there are many downsides to it as well these are the downsides  

1. It’s keeping you from growth

In life, you’re either growing or dying. That might seem a bit exaggerated — and it is — but it’s not meant to be taken literally.

The primary ingredient for a happy life very well may be progress, as recent positive psychology studies have pointed towards. Shawn Achor, positive psychologist and author of The Happiness Advantage, refers to happiness as “the joy you feel moving towards your potential.”

2. It’s keeping you from trying new things

Perhaps the most important effort of our life is to discover what we have a passion for and to devote ourselves to the mastery of it. We do this both for the good of ourselves and to make a positive difference in the world.

Some of us, the lucky ones, discover what we’re passionate about early on in life. We know in our heart we’ve found what we love and can dedicate the rest of our life to the mastery of it – and enjoying every minute of it.

However, if you’re anything like me, you spent the first 20-30 years of your life experimenting and having little but a vague idea of what that thing might be. For most of us, it takes time to discover what we love and have a passion for. This is perfectly okay and natural. That is, so long as you’re trying new things and actively discovering what you like and don’t like.

The problem is, so long as you’re within your comfort zone, you’ll rarely if ever try new things (and often only if you’re forced into it).

This stops the discovery process altogether and keeps you from finding what you have a passion for. And this keeps you from being truly happy.

 and the last but not least is 

It’s conditioning you to settle

If you continue to live within your comfort zone until later in life, something else happens that seeks to threaten your growth and happiness….

You settle.

At some point in life, if this discovery hasn’t yet found its way to you, we grow tired and settle for what we have. This is perhaps the worst fate of all. Because while you’re technically still alive, you go on to live as if you were dead, settling into a life which doesn’t truly make you happy and never taking any chances.

there is so much to live for it may take a while for us to leave our comfort zone but it more worst to just stay in it make life is about experiences do you want to remember your life that way so go out there  and remember 

That’s the key word here: moving.

Growth is about progress.

Progress is about movement.

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credit cards

i am going to chat about credit cards there are many things to say about it but first, what is a credit card according to Investopedia A credit card is a card issued by a financial company which enables the cardholder to borrow funds. The funds may be used as payment for goods and services. Issuance of credit cards has the condition that the cardholder will pay back the original, borrowed amount plus any additional agreed-upon charges and to balance.com  A credit card is a card that allows you to borrow money against a line of credit, otherwise known as the card’s credit limit. You use the card to make basic transactions, which are then reflected on your bill.

the basic knowledge of the common people and to my understanding of its interpretation and  according to the two sites that it is a tool that can make you buy things for now and pay it later it is seen in different show that a simple swipe all those payments goes away but what they don't show you is the paying part of it most people forgetting that credit cards are one way that banks make sums of money thru interest sure there are some promos the 0% interest rate but there are hidden fees under those that still make the bank earn so money and now a tool that has been used in comfort is now somehow a trap it is most likely the holders fault by forgetting the basic principles of a credit cards.

You might be thinking now that credit cards are bad but no I am not saying that like money , credit cards are just  tools to be used it all depends on the holder of it so people that own it must study it before using it to my experience and recommendation it should only be used for emergencies and to be sure that you have a money set aside for the expected bill to come and spend on what you can afford.

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on the side lines

so lately people think I have been just lazing around but nope I have been busy every day sure  I  make lesser money than before but I still make some I also have been studying more on topics that  might help me in the near future hopefully but that is all okay things have different then before noticed I have changed I don't know if it if for the better or worse during this time I have learned more about myself as well and has reflected the faults in my life I have been working hard for me to change for the better as some old problems have been popping out but some new things have come out good things I still hope for a job sure it will greatly help me and the household I have been feeling guilty as well for not reaching the expectations that my parent have for me and they might see her as a failure because of that and I don't want that for her so even in the little ways I have been doing things to lessen the stress she has and will someday hopefully all this work I have been doing in the side lines will be all for the good of all thank you for reading my rant and have a good day.

pets

 I want to talk about a topic that almost anyone can relate its about pets. Pets are many things such as companions, stress reliever, guardians and many more. people like to take care of things that show love unconditionally they show their appreciation to us by different things depends on the pet as many people have different taste in pets mostly its cats or dog but there are other unique pets such as snakes, horses, fish(yes fish is not common for me) and sometimes monkeys these special friends of ours makes us happy no matter what kind they are but sometimes as pet owners we forget that the love get is what we give first we must take care of them show them that we appreciate  them as well don't sideline them when you get another one more and so I see people getting new pets and rejecting the old ones when you get a new one they are like kids they will get jealous when you pay to much attention on the new one you must balance them out as no matter how old these pets are they still depend on you must be the person your pets see you dont forget pets are not just for design they are family members that you can choose so love them as much as they love you.

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