Things you shouldn't do when trial comes

trials in our life are perceived as monsters or villains of our life that why I choose this image  we have different sizes of problems that come our way  we all agree that we hate them no matter how much you like a challenge it is still a pain in the side when they arrive in our life there are many ways of dealing with trials here are ways that shouldn't do when they arrive and while at it  give you a little advice on how to get over them.

1. Don't escape your pain.

Don't deny what you are going through. Some people who have trials in there life find ways to escape like alcohol, shopping, forms of addiction or something much worse.
And you know what happens to people to try to escape their problem delay them or just simply avoid them altogether. It gets worse. you got pain? face it be the stronger person you have to be don't dull the pain with addiction and destructive behaviors.
The first step on it is actually talking to somebody about it sometimes problems in our life are not as big as they seem, talk to someone about it is a great help to ease your worries and this person you decided to talk to can help you with it just don't avoid it. Deal with it.

2. Don't abandon in the dark what you have learned in the light.

There are people who when faced with the challenges of life, stopping living the life they feel that there is no more solution or no more point to it  so  they abandon what they hold dear in there life they are no longer living there just surviving they often find an excuse to fool them self that this is their life now that this is the end of it.
Trials are like blindfolds. we can't see clearly when we have trials but nothing has changed around you, a problem with marriage adultery is still wrong, short on cash stealing is still wrong, Sin is still a sin that will not change.
Life can be an ass life can be like that we often forget us hurting doesn't give us a pass to hurt others.
When we are in the dark we think we are alone and when we think we are alone we do things we don't do when there are people around and some of these things are just awful we succumb to our dark impulses just to drown the pain and loneliness we feel. In the dark, we think these things are okay but it is not.

3. Don't stop praying but also don't stop doing no matter how the situation seems hopeless it's not there is always a solution.
as the saying goes
"FAITH  ITSELF WITHOUT COMPLEMENTED BY ACTION IS DEAD"


Thank you for reading have a great day :3